Even though you will likely see women attacking other women on social media because of their size...or how tan they are...or how much contouring they have done to their cheekbones...you who will experience love and acceptance. Though the rest of the world seems to target you and every other child, girl, woman, boy or man who has any flaw of any sort...to rob you of your self worth and to steal your joy...you can rise above it. It's going to be hard sometimes...it was for me and I didn't even have a craniofacial syndrome. I don't have a bone deficiency. I haven't battled cancer. I don't have genetics that predispose me to obesity and I haven't ever struggled with depression, eating disorders or SEVERE oppression, but I have still experienced hatred simply because of my appearance.
The women I have mentioned have too. So have men! Your dad was called "pizza face" in junior high because of his blemishes. Your aunts are called "bags of bones" and made to feel like no man could ever love them because they don't currently have enough curves. People have gone so far with their hatred of others that they have attempted to create the "perfect race" as recently as 70 years ago (and millions of innocent people lost their lives because of the color of their hair and eyes...the shape of their noses and the texture of their hair)! In truth, people hate other people. We live in a violent, fallen, fickle and catty world. At best in this spectrum of cruelty, your peers could be incredibly superficial and chose to make fun of the way you look. That's justwhat kids do...to all other kids no matter what. When you are grown, it might become a battle you fight within your own brain...a silent struggle to be perfect, accepted and more aesthetically pleasing to the masses.
It doesn't have to be this way, though. You can be one of the people who never uses phrases like "real women have curves" or "she was like 80 pounds...bag of bones", racial slurs, harmful language of any sort, body shaming statements, bigotry, etc. You can rise above it, I know you can. I love you. You are REAL and so is everyone else on the planet who draws breath...whether they realize it or not.
God created all of us with an amazing and divine purpose. He has a plan to prosper us and NOT to harm us...to give us HOPE and a FUTURE (Jeremiah 29:11). He desires that none of us should perish ( 2 Peter 3:9) and loved the entire world enough to send His son to die for our sins (John 3:16). He asks us not to judge others (Matthew 7:1) because only He knows their hearts (1 Samuel 16:7). He calls us to even love our enemies (Matthew 5:44) and to persevere against all odds (Hebrews 12:1-3). He has equipped us for this (Hebrews 13:21). Why don't we pay it forward, then? He also asks us that we LOVE one another (John 13:34) and we can't really do that until we cut out this hate speech and until (for the love of goodness) we stop feeling that we have the right to talk about another person's body EVER.